"Why does it feel even lonelier when you have to explain your sadness to someone?"

 Sometimes, sadness isn't something you can explain.

It's something you carry. Quietly. Heavily.


But the hardest loneliness comes when you finally try to speak…

and you’re met with blank stares, advice you didn’t ask for, or uncomfortable silence.


It hurts, not because people are cruel —

but because when you have to explain your sadness,

it feels like your heartache has become a burden someone else needs to understand before they accept it.


You find yourself using words that don't fit.

Justifying pain that should've been simply witnessed.


And in that moment,

you realize you're not just sad.

You're also alone in your sadness.


If you've ever had to explain the weight you were carrying —

and felt even heavier afterward —

you’re not broken.

You’re not wrong.

You were simply trying to be seen…

by someone who wasn't ready to see you.

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If our work has touched you, and you wish to support us, your contribution would mean a lot.
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Thank you for helping us continue holding these soft spaces for emotional healing — for you, and for others too.

Soft spaces like this are rare. Thank you for sitting quietly with your heart. 🤍

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